When I was doing my internship in college, someone once said to me, “Mary Ann, I’m not sure your skin is tough enough for the fashion world.”
I remember standing there — a little stunned — wondering if kindness had a place in an industry known for its sharp edges.
Years later, I realized something powerful: my kindness was my edge. It helped me lead, mentor, and build something that reflected who I am — Daisy-Bella.
The Lesson I Learned
Back then, I thought toughness meant being louder, harder, or more competitive. But over time, I learned something different — the strongest people I met were the ones who could stay kind in chaos, calm in criticism, and true to themselves when everyone else was trying to fit a mold.
Kindness doesn’t mean you let the world walk over you. It means you choose grace when it’s easier to react. It means knowing your worth without needing to prove it. It’s the kind of strength that doesn’t shout — it shines.
For Anyone Who’s Ever Been Told They’re “Too Soft”
Maybe you’ve been told you’re too sensitive, too emotional, or too gentle to make it. But here’s the truth — softness is not weakness. It’s your quiet power. The world doesn’t need more harsh voices; it needs hearts that lead with empathy and light.
When you stay kind in an unkind world, you remind others that success can be both strong and genuine. You show that compassion can still drive results — and that integrity never goes out of style.
A Daisy-Bella Reminder
To anyone who’s ever doubted themselves — or been doubted by others — remember: you don’t have to harden to succeed.
Stay kind. Stay grounded. Stay you.
Written by Mary Ann, founder of Daisy-Bella — here to help women feel seen, supported, and powerful in who they already are.
